BEGINING WITH THE END IN MIND

As our daughters grow, we all share the desire to create lasting, meaningful connections with them. But building joyful connections doesn't happen automatically. It requires intentionality. As you prepare to create connections and build stronger bonds with your family, I want you to begin with the end in mind. That’s right, 

I want you to take a moment to pause and imagine what you would like you and your family to have experienced by the end of this 12 weeks. The next 12 months?  The next 12 years? 

Imagine looking back on this time in your lives, and what fond memories, values, and life lessons would you like your daughter to reflect on when she thinks about this season of her life? What stories would you like to envision her sharing with her children? What family traditions would you like to see passed down over the years? What kind of relationship do you hope to have with your daughter in the future? 

Reflecting on these questions can guide your actions today and help you build the bonds that matter most. 

Before we jump fully into this beautiful bonding experience, here are five reflection questions to consider: 

• What values do I want to instill in my daughter, and how can I model them daily? 
• How do I want my daughter to feel when she thinks about our relationship? 
• What traditions or rituals can I create to foster closeness and connection? 
• Am I creating an environment where my daughter feels heard, valued, and supported? 
• How will I prioritize and protect quality time with my daughter in a busy world? 

Take a moment to reflect on your answers. These insights can act as your guiding light, helping you stay focused on what matters most: building brilliant bonds and creating connections with your family.